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Thursday, 15 November 2012 20:51

Stress
by Janet Riley

How do I forgive myself when I have been so stressed out and angry: when I believe more demands are being placed on me than I can handle? My husband is in a hospice and I have a full time job.

I look at mothers with small children and I wonder how they do it. They don't have evenings and weekends off. Today I saw a grandma in a wheelchair and her not too nimble husband trying to keep up with a grandchild that was moving at 100 miles an hour.

I know in my heart and in my spirit that God is a personal God. I have evidence in my life about how He has guided me over and over again . So why am I having so much trouble trusting Him now when life is putting more demands on me than I feel that i can handle?

I have to remember that we all have times when God leads us through a desert, when the Master's hands are shaping the clay of my life. The stress has led to a stripping away of illusions I had about myself, that I was really able to trust in God and not look at the circumstances.

I usually help and advise others, now I have had to reach out for support from my church, from my friends, from my family.

Before now, I had carefully tried to keep work separate from my personal life. I have always been afraid to make friends at work. What would happenĀ  if we disagreed on something outside of work, but then still have to work together? But now the personal stress in my life has spilled over into my work life. I have had to be honest with some co-workers about what is happening.

It has been harder to stay focused at work and not make mistakes.

How do I forgive my self when I am not a perfect robot, able to focus and function no matter what is going on? God made me human, and humans make mistakes and feel stress. I want to trust God, and remind myself that He loves me unconditionally.

This painful process has been an exercise that has stripped away illusions I had about myself, and made me become more open to others.

I hope by sharing this, that if you see a co-worker who is hurting due to illness in the family or other major stresses, you will have compassion if they do make mistakes. Try to be supportive as they juggle work and their personal life; sometimes not too successfully.

I am in that place right now, and I have to trust God hour by hour, day by day. I need to ask for His grace, I can't do this on my own strength.

(C) Janet Riley, 2012. I know God as a personal God who communicates with us, if we listen. I am starting on a Christian writing career and open to where God leads me. Please review my other articles at FaithWriters. I would like to hear from you. Please email at This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it .

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